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What's the big deal if a lady is older than a guy in either relationship or marriage? I just posted this topic and I learnt from there that some guys wouldn't marry an older lady for any reason. I think if it's just a matter of 1 to 3 years older, that shouldn't be a big deal.

What's your take on this?

It's naturally a guy's thing to take control in relationship. If the woman is older, she might want to take over. I think it just revolves around this phenomenon.

Quote from: Bigowl on Feb 22, 2024, 07:22 PMIt's naturally a guy's thing to take control in relationship. If the woman is older, she might want to take over. I think it just revolves around this phenomenon.

And you think 1-3 year age gap would have effect? When there are many people of this age gaps among one's friend and we all see ourselves as mates.

QuoteAnd you think 1-3 year age gap would have effect? When there are many people of this age gaps among one's friend and we all see ourselves as mates.

Marriage and courtship is far more than friendship buddy. I can't near the idea of dating an older lady not to talk of marriage.

Quote from: Mafy on Feb 22, 2024, 07:30 PMMarriage and courtship is far more than friendship buddy. I can't near the idea of dating an older lady not to talk of marriage.

Wow😱

There are many things the lady would do unconsciously and the guy would think it's 'cause of the age difference. For instance, if she sends you message often, you might not reason towards the side of her being tired or lazy. You might just conclude she's riding you as a guy.

I don't buy the idea.

Quote from: Ruthk on Feb 22, 2024, 07:37 PMThere are many things the lady would do unconsciously and the guy would think it's 'cause of the age difference. For instance, if she sends you message often, you might not reason towards the side of her being tired or lazy. You might just conclude she's riding you as a guy.

I don't buy the idea.

Why would someone think this way?

QuoteWhy would someone think this way?

Wait until you start dating an older lady, then, you would understand some things are natural. Except you are not an alpha male

Quote from: Yace on Feb 22, 2024, 07:43 PM

QuoteWhy would someone think this way?

Wait until you start dating an older lady, then, you would understand some things are natural. Except you are not an alpha male

Wow!!