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Quote from: Lovemarina on Oct 24, 2024, 01:43 AMYou can get a chef who will be doing bulk cooking possibly once or twice a week instead of buying at all times.

This sounds great

I see no reason why the wife shouldn't cook if she stays at home. If she works however, she may only cook when she has the energy.

Quote from: Vamvick on Oct 24, 2024, 01:45 AMI see no reason why the wife shouldn't cook if she stays at home. If she works however, she may only cook when she has the energy.

Even if she stays at home, it shouldn't be a duty for her. She's probably taking care of entire home and the children which is already draining.

Most men that wants to have a cook in a wife find it difficult to boil water themselves, yet they want a maid as a wife.
A guy was telling me some years ago that his main reason for getting married was to start eating good food.

OMG! Why not get a maid instead?

His marriage didn't last 2 years, I didn't know what caused issue but the red flag in him was obvious.

Nope, cooking is a life skill, in some first world countries except you are very rich, you can't just be buying food at your will, you need to be able to sort yourself at least once/twice a day even though the other meal would be bought, because if you go with the idea of buying food every time, you would be left with nothing at the end due to high cost and standard of living.

A wife isn't a cook and that's the fact.

Quote from: Mafy on Oct 24, 2024, 01:40 AMNo, it's not the duty of a wife to cook.
Anyone in the family can cook, and if there's no one to cook, it's not a crime to buy food.
I guess, my wife and I would often buy food when I get married, because I don't like cooking and I really don't like seeing people cooking, cooking is draining.
I can only understand if you're doing it for money.

I wonder how much you'll end up spending on food orders when you have children.
You need to get someone to do it for you guys, that's the best way to go.

Someone suggested the same. Thanks