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Cleaning oneself with water or tissue after using the toilet, which is better?
Someone told me she only uses tissue yesterday after each urination and defecation.
I suggested to her water is better and it led us to argument.
Which one do you believe is better between the two?
Water or tissue?

There shouldn't be any argument here, a lady for that matter...bleh. Water is the best and there's no controversy about it.

What do you mean a lady for that matter?
I use tissue. You can easily carry germs around after using water, just ensure you take your bath twice a day.

Quote from: Urguy on Sep 22, 2024, 05:44 AMThere shouldn't be any argument here, a lady for that matter...bleh. Water is the best and there's no controversy about it.

Why would anybody use tissue?

Water of course.

Quote from: Sharonlee on Sep 22, 2024, 05:47 AMWhat do you mean a lady for that matter?
I use tissue. You can easily carry germs around after using water, just ensure you take your bath twice a day.

You are talking of carrying germs around...WTF!
If only you know the amount of germs you carry around after using tissue, bleh.
Use water and wash your hands after please.

Tissue makes you dry and comfortable. So I would go for tissue.

Wow! There are people who only still wipe with tissue in 2024!

Wonderful! Use water, that's why some folks stink down there and they don't even know. Reason guys keep leaving some ladies, please always use water.

@Sharonlee, don't tell me you don't wash your hands even after using tissue. You are carrying disaster all around not just germs then. People should take their hygiene seriously.

Quote from: Manualor on Sep 22, 2024, 05:58 AMWow! There are people who only still wipe with tissue in 2024!

Wonderful! Use water, that's why some folks stink down there and they don't even know. Reason guys keep leaving some ladies, please always use water.

@Sharonlee, don't tell me you don't wash your hands even after using tissue. You are carrying disaster all around not just germs then. People should take their hygiene seriously.

So, ladies do not leave guys because those guys stink down there too?  It's only a lady's thing.

You guys most times do not attach any importance to your hygiene and you say all sorts to bash ladies.
Yuck!

Quote from: Ticam on Sep 22, 2024, 06:02 AMSo, ladies do not leave guys because those guys stink down there too, it's only a lady's thing.

You guys most times do not attach any importance to your hygiene and you say all sorts to bash ladies.
Yuck!

Lol, sorry if it hurts, but it seems common among ladies, maybe because of the way their private part is structured.

For those saying tissue, I can't believe what I'm reading.

Urination - use water and dry with tissue for comfort and so you don't get stained with the water in public.

Defecation - use water with mild soap and dry with tissue also for the above reason.

I have little towels I use at home for the purpose of drying and I wash together with my pant whenever I'm about to take my bath, I change each towel from time to time, those small ones that comes in the size of an handkerchief. If I'm outside, not at home, I use tissue.
It might not be a towel, it might be an old pant or a clean material, just ensure you're washing and drying it from time to time.

I'm so used to this method that using only water makes me uncomfortable. God forbid I use only tissue, even as I'm reading it, it's so disgusting.🤨

Quote from: Ruthk on Sep 22, 2024, 06:12 AMFor those saying tissue, I can't believe what I'm reading.

Urination - use water and dry with tissue for comfort and so you don't get stained with the water in public.

Defecation - use water with mild soap and dry with tissue also for the above reason.

I have little towels I use at home for this purpose and wash together with my pant whenever I'm about to take my bath, I chang each towel from time to time. If I'm outside, not at home, I use tissue.
It might not be a towel, it might be an old pant or a clean material, just ensure you're washing it from time to time.

I'm so used to this method that using only water makes me uncomfortable. God forbid I use only tissue, even as I'm reading it, it's disgusting.🤨

This one is overdo. Soap? I heard it's not really good for that part of the body.

Drying or dabbing after, making use of water is cool though.

Quote from: Ruthk on Sep 22, 2024, 06:12 AMFor those saying tissue, I can't believe what I'm reading.

Urination - use water and dry with tissue for comfort and so you don't get stained with the water in public.

Defecation - use water with mild soap and dry with tissue also for the above reason.

I have little towels I use at home for this purpose and wash together with my pant whenever I'm about to take my bath, I chang each towel from time to time. If I'm outside, not at home, I use tissue.
It might not be a towel, it might be an old pant or a clean material, just ensure you're washing it from time to time.

I'm so used to this method that using only water makes me uncomfortable. God forbid I use only tissue, even as I'm reading it, it's disgusting.🤨

Menhh, I like clean girls😙

Quote from: Brainstormy on Sep 22, 2024, 06:15 AMThis one is overdo. Soap? I heard it's not really good for that part of the body.

Drying or dabbing after making use of water is cool though.

You bathe daily right?
Why will washing with mild or gentle soap be an issue after each poo?
It isn't like you are pooing several times a day. All things being equal, a lot of healthy adults only poop once daily, some might not even poop in a day.

Or, are you saying you don't wash that part when bathing because you heard it's not good for it?

I don't understand.

My own is, use bidet to avoid staining your hands with poop and pee, and ensure you wash and dry your hands afterwards.

Quote from: Rainy on Sep 22, 2024, 06:24 AMMy own is, use bidet to avoid staining your hands with poop and pee, and ensure you wash and dry your hands afterwards.

Not everyone has access to bidet. What happens if you do but it develops fault?

And remember that not all bidets are programmed with adequate water pressure, most of it, you still need to use your hand to ensure proper cleaning.

No big deal in using one's hand and washing the hand thoroughly after.

Quote from: Brainstormy on Sep 22, 2024, 06:15 AMThis one is overdo. Soap? I heard it's not really good for that part of the body.

Drying or dabbing after making use of water is cool though.

It's not overdo, it's neatness, if your anus gets irritated with soap, that's a separate thing, nothing like it's not good for that part please, and poo isn't like pee.
How many times do you poop daily if you're not purging?

Say something else.

Quote from: Shereefah on Sep 22, 2024, 06:23 AMYou bathe daily right?
Why will washing with mild or gentle soap be an issue after each poo?
It isn't like you are pooing several times a day. All things being equal, a lot of healthy adults only poop once daily, some might not even poo in a day.

Or are you saying you don't wash that part when bathing because you heard it's not good for it?

I don't understand.

Yeah @Shereefah, please help ask him.😀

Once you start that habit of washing and drying, you can't go back again 'cause it's just too comfortable and you enjoy every time freshness.

Quote from: Remtitotle on Sep 22, 2024, 05:54 AMTissue makes you dry and comfortable. So I would go for tissue.

Quote from: Manualor on Sep 22, 2024, 05:58 AMWow! There are people who only still wipe with tissue in 2024!

Wonderful! Use water, that's why some folks stink down there and they don't even know. Reason guys keep leaving some ladies, please always use water.

@Sharonlee, don't tell me you don't wash your hands even after using tissue. You are carrying disaster all around not just germs then. People should take their hygiene seriously.

I do wash my hands and I included "take your bath twice daily".

Quote from: Manualor on Sep 22, 2024, 06:28 AMNot everyone has access to bidet. What happens if you do but it develop fault?

And remember that not all bidets are programmed with adequate water pressure, most of it, you still need to use your hand to ensure proper cleaning.

No big deal in using one's hand and washing the hand thoroughly after.

Not all bidets have good pressure, I agree.

Quote from: Sharonlee on Sep 22, 2024, 06:37 AMI do wash my hands and I included "take your bath twice daily".

So if you're my babe and we want to do the do, you had your bath in the morning but it's afternoon and you have used the rest room before we get together, that's how I will end up smelling shitty things. 😏ick