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[Biu]

Just as the question says. Why do men commonly find slim women attractive and they find fat women unattractive?

[Bigowl]

It's greatly depends on the man. Not all men find fat women unattractive, some men like fat women, although, they are not many. I have a friend that prefers to go for plus sized ladies.

[Ayochef]

Being fat says something about you, which is being lazy, being lazy to the extent of working on yourself, I'm a guy that work out frequently and I'm not gonna be with someone who can't work on herself and control whatever she eats, maybe.

[Mafy]

It sometimes depends on society and culture, if the society make us see it as if fat women are more attractive today, I believe a lot of men would go in that direction. In some culture, they used to believe fat women were more attractive before being westernised.
Notwithstanding, not all men find slim women attractive, some do not.

[Congra]

For someone who doesn't date for fun, I'm gonna say this... Sometimes I see beautiful chubby women and I would be like 'Gracious! she's beautiful.'
Now, before walking up to her, my brain starts picturing other scenarios e.g what if she becomes obese tomorrow?
Women tend to add more weight when they're being taken proper care of and even if I'm with a slim lady, I already believe she would become fat as time goes, not really that I don't find them attractive but  I wouldn't want to choose someone who will become fatter or be the fattest.
That's my personal reason.

[Umicto Darl]

I once dated one and Jezzz, this girl turn out to be unable to control what she eats. She just wanna eat anything at anytime, she's a foodie who doesn't care about proper diet, in fact, she prefers junks and foods that will rather make her more fat.
Most of them can control the fat but they choose not to which can later make them unhealthy. With my personal experience, I wouldn't go for a fat lady again, not because they are unattractive but because we all get to a stage in adulthood where controlling ourselves in every manner is necessary and I don't see a fat person having the capacity to control themselves that much when it comes to what they eat.
It's not just about the lady I dated, I have seen many other cases among friends, colleagues and relatives.

[Furforti]

As a guy who was fat before I lose some weight, I personally don't wanna be with them because often times, they're slow in every manner, walking, thinking, working e.t.c Mere working with them in a team, you'll get to know how slow they could be, not necessarily lazy, but they are often slow.
Don't forget I said I was once fat, so I know what I'm saying, some might be exceptional but most of them are slow.

[Advocatewa]

Not too fat, but chubby girls are my spec. I don't like them slim.

[Ticam]

All of you saying all sorts, when you finally marry that slim lady and she suddenly becomes fat, that's when you'll learn.
Some women are naturally plus sized and they can't really control it, even exercise and diet can not help much except maybe they go for surgery.

[Kleone]

All of you saying all sorts, when you finally marry that slim lady and she suddenly becomes fat, that's when you'll learn.
Some women are naturally plus sized and they can't really control it, even exercise and diet can not help much except maybe they go for surgery.

Lol... But even ladies do not find fat men attractive, it's the same for all genders.

[Neutramine]

To me, it's a thing of fashion. Looking like a model beside me as we go out together and the like, you know... I'm a slim guy and I wouldn't want someone to ask, is that your mum? when I'm actually with my babe.
Nevertheless, I have a brother who like thick girls, it's a matter of choice.

[Neutramine]

All of you saying all sorts, when you finally marry that slim lady and she suddenly becomes fat, that's when you'll learn.
Some women are naturally plus sized and they can't really control it, even exercise and diet can not help much except maybe they go for surgery.

I believe we both become fat by then, so no issues.

[Afrowin]

Although I'm a lady but here's my contribution...
When you're fat, even your face is fat which makes you look older, reason you see a 17 year old fat person looking older while you sometimes see a 40 year old slim person looking younger.
Being fat has been known to be an open passage to some medical conditions, as being fat could lead to overweight which could lead to obesity and could lead to other conditions. So it isn't cool to just leave yourself like that without doing anything about it, when some people see you trekking or taking a walk somewhere they think you're suffering not knowing you are keeping yourself under control for proper health, I look at them and smile, some will even stop and wanna give you a ride believing it's because you don't have the money to transport yourself...lol. If only they knew how terrible being fat is they wouldn't be thinking that way.

@Op, it's not just men, women also find fat men unattractive, even a fat woman would like to go for a slim guy.

[Vamvick]

Well, not that we find them unattractive but maybe beauty standard, the already set beauty standard makes it look as if being fat isn't in any way a standard of beauty, look around in the magazine, the TV, the modeling industry, in beauty pageant, how many fat women are there?
Even at that, I know men that like fat women, if you're fat, don't think you're unattractive, just believe the one who will appreciate you for who you are hasn't come yet, and for sure, he would definitely come around. There's a man for every woman.

[Bravotap]

A lot of judgemental comments here. All I can say is, just pass if a fat lady isn't attractive to you and let them be. Exercise and diet doesn't work for everyone, a lot of your favourite celebrities you see and admire, that you think they are naturally that way or are working out have actually gone through several surgeries.
Let fat people be, I like them fat🤪

[Mycapfed]

It depends on what you mean by fat or slim.
I don't want my girl to be skinny or overweight, I prefer someone in-between, round shape, not fat and not skinny, those are the ones I find very attractive.

[Dominia]

Not too fat, but chubby girls are my spec. I don't like them slim.

Yeah, we like them thick like what's in this image🤜