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It's not as if he would pity you if you attended that interview and it didn't favour you. Why are you pitying him when it comes to turning him down?
Let him know you've got better things to do than answering his calls.
And you don't need to think of next time, this is reality not a movie scene. If you have any reason to apply there next time, if you're selected, fine and if not, life goes on.

Quote from: Rocco on Oct 04, 2024, 06:52 PMIt's your time! Tell him you'll get back to him and never do, if he calls again, block his ass.

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It's your time! Tell him you'll get back to him and never do, if he calls again, block his ass.

It could be that a lot of people are rejecting the job or people do not like working in the company because it's full of issues. Therefore, making the recruitment process difficult for him, probably, no single qualified person showed up for the interview. This could make him be under hot pressure by the management team who could be thinking he isn't capable of doing the job, reason he keeps disturbing.
Tell him 'hey, I'm no longer interested and you do not need to call this number again.'

He could naturally be that kind of person that doesn't take his self-respect so seriously.
Only him knows why he keeps calling though, we could just guess.
Tell him frankly you are no longer interested in the job and do not say more than that.
Seems you're concerned about how he or the whole recruiting team of the company would feel, c'mon, screw that part.
They wouldn't have bothered about your feelings if reversed was case, so fvck their feelings.

Quote from: Tweendove on Oct 04, 2024, 06:11 PMMaybe he observed your address is closer to the company and you will be able to resume or work till uncomfortable hours. You could be the only one very close to the company and their work schedule might be very uncomfortable, talking from experience. Don't think he's trying to be nice or do you any favour, the next time he calls, let him know you're not interested, you do not need to bother stressing over writing a mail, just let him know through phone call since he calls often.

Or the recruiter thinks, he would have no problem accepting peanut as salary because he stays close.
Some of them have that myopic thought as well.

Quote from: Bigowl on Oct 04, 2024, 05:55 PMI applied for this job, was called for an interview, and after doing my findings about the company, I decided not to go because I'm sure their culture doesn't match what I'm looking for.
The recruiter has been calling me since then anyway, asking for a reschedule, I don't want to be harsh.
I assume he should just let it slide, why is he disturbing me and how can I turn him down?

That cultural issues you are running away from could be the reason they are finding it difficult to fill the position, others could as well be running from the same thing.
Tell him you don't like wasting people's time and that's why you didn't show up as you have decided to withdraw your application at this time. He could just be looking for who to push inside fire.
If he ask for reasons, just say you're occupied with other things right now.

Quote from: Biu on Oct 04, 2024, 06:19 PMWhy can't he move on?
Don't we move on when they ghost us?
Don't we move on when they send us rejection mail?
Don't we move on when they promise to get back to us and never get back?
What reason do they give us (applicants) for all these and more?
So why can't he embrace this little disappointment and move on too?

Exactly my point.

Quote from: Romilade on Oct 04, 2024, 06:13 PMYou're expecting him to move on when it's not as if you gave any reason? What if you're the only applicant?🤷

I don't think I can be the only applicant because it's a job advertised online.

Quote from: Romilade on Oct 04, 2024, 06:13 PMYou're expecting him to move on when it's not as if you gave any reason? What if you're the only applicant?🤷

Why can't he move on?
Don't we move on when they ghost us?
Don't we move on when they send us rejection mail?
Don't we move on when they promise to get back to us and never get back?
What reason do they give us (applicants) for all these and more?
So why can't he embrace this little disappointment and move on too?

You're expecting him to move on when it's not as if you gave any reason? What if you're the only applicant?🤷

Maybe he observed your address is closer to the company and you will be able to always resume so early or work till uncomfortable hours. You could be the only one very close to the company and their work schedule might be very uncomfortable, talking from experience. Don't think he's trying to be nice or do you any favour, the next time he calls, let him know you're not interested, you do not need to bother stressing over writing a mail, just let him know through phone call since he calls often.

Some of the them already know who they prefer by running through the CV alone, only when this person messes up maybe during the interview, that's when they move on to another person.
He could believe you seem to be the most fitted person for the role, from what he sees on your application and doesn't want to lose you.
My advice is, come out plainly for him that you are no longer interested, you could send a mail or an SMS to politely withdraw your application, an email will be better.

I applied for this job, was called for an interview, and after doing my findings about the company, I decided not to go because I'm sure their culture doesn't match what I'm looking for.
The recruiter has been calling me since then anyway, asking for a reschedule, I don't want to be harsh.
I assume he should just let it slide, why is he disturbing me and how can I turn him down?