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Quote from: Stely on Feb 06, 2024, 07:10 PM@Yace, even though I don't support same age too. Women look older only when they are not properly care for, once they are taken proper care of, they look far younger.

Absolutely

@Yace, even though I don't support same age too. Women look older only when they are not properly care for, once they are taken proper care of, they look far younger.

All the same, I support at least 5 years gap. If possible, the man should be 10 years older 😜

@Ruthk, not every man want to control their women like baby

Quote from: Ruthk on Feb 06, 2024, 07:00 PMSo that you guys can always control right? Don't worry, you'll still control even though you are the same age.

Anyways, I agree with the author, you flow freely when the difference is not much.

As for me though, Same age...no
1-3 years gap...yes

Quote from: Yace on Feb 06, 2024, 06:53 PMI disagree, a man should be older than his wife.

It's not about controlling Ruth, it's about your wife looking far younger and even at old age, it will help

So that you guys can always control right? Don't worry, you'll still control even though you are the same age.

Anyways, I agree with the author, you flow freely when the difference is not much.

As for me though, Same age...no
1-3 years gap...yes

Quote from: Yace on Feb 06, 2024, 06:53 PMI disagree, a man should be older than his wife.

I disagree, a man should be older than his wife.

Is age only a number?Obviously I would agree with regards to life achievements however with regards to marriage, I figure age might be in excess of a number.

Study has shown that men normally want a more youthful spouse, even at that, we as a whole know that having a more youthful and alluring spouse doesn't ensure an enduring marriage.

There is typically decline in conjugal fulfillment at long run for spouses whose age hole is wide contrast with those with little age holes or same age.

Research has shown that the more extensive the age hole between couple, the almost certain they are to get separated.

That's what the investigation discovered - One year hole in the period of couple make them 3% bound to separate when contrasted with their equivalent matured individual, then, when the age hole is as long as 5 years the possibilities of separation ascend to 18 percent, with a long term distinction it ascends to 39 percent and when it really depends on a long term age hole, the possibilities of separation ascend to 95 percent.

Considering this, wedding somebody your own age is better.

Justifications for why same age partner could be awesome

• Same valuable experience :

More seasoned individuals will generally see things from their own view alone, however, now and again, they might be correct, particularly with regards to giving exhort yet with regards to different issues, they scarcely accept that changes truly happen in practically all points of life and that the earth turns with everything in it ( however not every one of them). As far as contention, you can undoubtedly arrive at compromise when both of you are same age, yet in the event that your spouse is a lot more seasoned than you, be prepared to confront careful test in this viewpoint as he/she could most time carry on like your lord rather than a buddy. Assuming you are same age, you might not need to confront this test.

• Comparable stage throughout everyday life :

This will offer you the chance to design together ( both of you might try and have a comparable arrangement) this will provoke the simple fulfillment of your objectives throughout everyday life. At the point when couple are in various stages throughout everyday life, accommodating each other's requirements and goals might be troublesome.

• You might have more common companions:

You have the inclinations to mingle together as both of you will find it simple to incorporate into your individual fellowship bunch. That is certainly going to be enjoyable.

• You could be best of companions :

You will be more open to one another, making it simple to see your spouse as somebody you can constantly confied in, as opposed to tracking down a comrade outside your marriage.

• You could have an equivalent organization :

Marriage is about equivalent organization, a man/lady your own age has recently experienced his/her own life. You can challenge one another and support one another, instead of taking on a coach's job which may not satisfy the other individual.

• Same social references :

Maybe you will have a typical view about the world. A man of 40 years could see most recent hip bounces as garbage while a lady of 25 years could see old raggae as obsolete. One might get pissed when the other is appreciating what he/she prefers.

You need a marriage that could endure? Attempt to wed somebody your own age.

Couples with same age ( conceived same year independent of months distinction) actually experience divorces. Obviously, insights are forecasters not destiny. We need to advise ourselves that age isn't really a file of marriage achievement or disappointment. There are more factors to consider prior to venturing into marriage.

A huge age hole between a couple isn't a despot of the disappointment of the marriage as there are numerous different elements to place into thought, among which are:

- Care, trust and responsibility
- What amount might they at any point uphold each other's fantasy to accomplish their objectives throughout everyday life?
-  Normal convictions, values, ethics between spouses.
- Common approaches to taking care of issues.

These variables above doesn't relate a lot to mature. This suggests that, up until this point couples are prepared to sort out their relationship with the necessary endeavors to have the option to continually employ a solitary course, age ought not be an issue.