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Quote from: Avomoton on Oct 13, 2024, 05:52 PMIt is called "Autosexuality", and it means these people are more sexually attracted to themselves than others and as such, they may prefer masturbation to sex with a partner.

In most cases, they do not orgasm while having sex with a partner, they mostly orgasm by masturbation, although might not be all of them, but this is common in them.

It could happen to both men and women, it's not about gender.

Most of them later develop the habit of not wanting to have sex with their significant other as time goes.
If a psychologist is debating this as whether it's a problem or not, it means that psychologist is just a new born in the field without adequate experience. It could and usually lead to big problem.
Many of them get to a stage they wouldn't have sexual urge towards their partner anymore, it could take time but trust me, it do get there. It might not happen to all of them, but it certainly happens to most of them at a time in their life.

Quote from: Avomoton on Oct 13, 2024, 05:52 PMIt is called "Autosexuality", and it means these people are more sexually attracted to themselves than others and as such, they may prefer masturbation to sex with a partner.

In most cases, they do not orgasm while having sex with a partner, they mostly orgasm by masturbation, although might not be all of them, but this is common in them.

It could happen to both men and women, it's not about gender.

Quote from: Avomoton on Oct 13, 2024, 06:30 PMWhether it's a problem or not has been a debate among many including Psychologists.
I would just say it depends on how each person sees it.

There's a Brian Bryant's term called Selfosexualism and it's related to Autosexuality.

The common usage term for Selfosexual has been auto-erotic, which most people claim to be the real sexuality of those in the narcissism kingdom (I wouldn't like to use the word narcissist as I'm not only referring to those with narcissistic personality disorder alone).

As we know, every angle of narcissism is about the self.
So it could possibly be a problem.
And again, if you check the Wiktionary there are two meanings of Narcissism

1)Excessive love of oneself.

2)Sexual desire for one's own body.

I'd just say, if this come along with excessive selfishness in a partner, it could be a problem, and it could either be Narcissism or Narcissistic personality disorder.

If this isn't the case, that is, if the autosexual person isn't excessively selfish, it could just be a sexual pattern or identity.

Your second question is divided into two which I believe I have answered the first that's similar to number 1 question.


Now, could it lead to a problem?
I don't know really, but if it's too much it may lead you to believe you don't need a sexual partner or lead you to not paying any attention to your partner's satisfaction. So, maybe we should say Yes.

100% on point. Looking into the mirror as they have sex could help Autosexuals orgasm when having sex with their partner.
So if you have a partner like that, ensure you have a mirror everywhere in the house, it could help.
Nevertheless, no matter what anyone says, l'm not judging, but I still think it's psychological.

Quote from: Yumbo on Oct 13, 2024, 06:38 PMI wouldn't dispute this for any reason, some people could be that way.
However, for some of us, it's caused by addiction to P0rn and masturbation, someone like me have experienced it and I was able to stop with strong determination.
This shouldn't be an excuse for everyone, genuinely ask yourself - Are you naturally like that or some other things caused it?

I agree

Quote from: Permitedangel on Oct 13, 2024, 06:43 PMI'm a bit confused though. What's the difference between Narcissism and those who have Narcissistic personality disorder

Narcissism means Excessive love of oneself. In another word, it's having a higher level of NPD traits but not an actual NPD.

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) means a mental health condition whereby a person has an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. These kind of people are typically called Narcissists.

Quote from: Avomoton on Oct 13, 2024, 06:30 PMWhether it's a problem or not has been a debate among many including Psychologists.
I would just say it depends on how each person sees it.

There's a Brian Bryant's term called Selfosexualism and it's related to Autosexuality.

The common usage term for Selfosexual has been auto-erotic. which most people claim to be the real sexuality of those in the narcissism kingdom (I wouldn't like to use the word narcissist as I'm not only referring to those with narcissistic personality disorder alone).

As we know, every angle of narcissism is about the self.
So it could possibly be a problem.
And again, if you check the Wiktionary there are two meanings of Narcissism

1)Excessive love of oneself.

2)Sexual desire for one's own body.

I'd just say, if this come along with excessive selfishness in a partner, it could be a problem, and it could either be Narcissism or Narcissistic personality disorder.

If this isn't the case, it could just be a sexual pattern or identity.

Your second question is divided into two which I believe I have answered the first that's similar to number 1 question.


Now, could it lead to a problem?
I don't know really, but if it's too much it may lead you to believe you don't need a sexual partner or lead you to not paying any attention to your partner's satisfaction. So, maybe we should say Yes.

I'm a bit confused though. What's the difference between Narcissism and those who have Narcissistic personality disorder

Quote from: Avomoton on Oct 13, 2024, 05:52 PMIt is called "Autosexuality", and it means these people are more sexually attracted to themselves than others and as such, they may prefer masturbation to sex with a partner.

In most cases, they do not orgasm while having sex with a partner, they mostly orgasm by masturbation, although might not be all of them, but this is common in them.

It could happen to both men and women, it's not about gender.

I wouldn't dispute this for any reason, some people could be that way.
However, for some of us, it's caused by addiction to P0rn and masturbation, someone like me have experienced it and I was able to stop with strong determination.
This shouldn't be an excuse for everyone, genuinely ask yourself - Are you naturally like that or some other things caused it?

Quote from: Permitedangel on Oct 13, 2024, 05:56 PMOh oh...There's a term for it, wonderful!
Is it a problem?
Or could it be or lead to a problem?

Whether it's a problem or not has been a debate among many including Psychologists.
I would just say it depends on how each person sees it.

There's a Brian Bryant's term called Selfosexualism and it's related to Autosexuality.

The common usage term for Selfosexual has been auto-erotic, which most people claim to be the real sexuality of those in the narcissism kingdom (I wouldn't like to use the word narcissist as I'm not only referring to those with narcissistic personality disorder alone).

As we know, every angle of narcissism is about the self.
So it could possibly be a problem.
And again, if you check the Wiktionary there are two meanings of Narcissism

1)Excessive love of oneself.

2)Sexual desire for one's own body.

I'd just say, if this come along with excessive selfishness in a partner, it could be a problem, and it could either be Narcissism or Narcissistic personality disorder.

If this isn't the case, that is, if the autosexual person isn't excessively selfish, it could just be a sexual pattern or identity.

Your second question is divided into two which I believe I have answered the first that's similar to number 1 question.


Now, could it lead to a problem?
I don't know really, but if it's too much it may lead you to believe you don't need a sexual partner or lead you to not paying any attention to your partner's satisfaction. So, maybe we should say Yes.

Quote from: Avomoton on Oct 13, 2024, 05:52 PMIt is called "Autosexuality", and it means these people are more sexually attracted to themselves than others and as such, they may prefer masturbation to sex with a partner.

In most cases, they do not orgasm while having sex with a partner, they mostly orgasm by masturbation, although might not be all of them, but this is common in them.

It could happen to both men and women, it's not about gender.

Oh oh...There's a term for it, wonderful!
Is it a problem?
Or could it be or lead to a problem?

It is called "Autosexuality", and it means these people are more sexually attracted to themselves than others and as such, they may prefer masturbation to sex with a partner.

In most cases, they do not orgasm while having sex with a partner, they mostly orgasm by masturbation, although might not be all of them, but this is common in them.

It could happen to both men and women, it's not about gender.

Quote from: Amaria on Oct 06, 2024, 11:23 PMYours was better, I had a boyfriend that immediately switches to P0rn after each sex and he wouldn't even do more than once, he switches to P0rn and masturbates after, so ridiculous, at first he goes elsewhere like living room, kitchen or bathroom to do it. There was a day he got caught and when I tried to talk to him about it, he didn't see it as a big deal, didn't believe he needed help.
I finally left him, now, I'm with someone who's so good in bed and wouldn't do that kind of a thing, we both ensure we are both satisfied.
Fvck chronic masturbators.

That's worse, very soon, he wouldn't last more than 30-60 seconds again. Good that you left him.

Quote from: Amaria on Oct 06, 2024, 11:23 PMYours was better, I had a boyfriend that immediately switches to P0rn after each sex and he wouldn't even do more than once, he switches to P0rn and masturbates after, so ridiculous, at first he goes elsewhere like leaving room, kitchen or bathroom to do it. There was a day he got caught and when I tried to talk to him about it, he didn't see it as a big deal, didn't believe he needed help.
I finally left him, now, I'm with someone who's so good in bed and wouldn't do that kind of a thing, we both ensure we are both satisfied.
Fvck chronic masturbators.

Not seeing it as a big deal makes it more of a big deal. Anyone who thinks it's normal needs to visit a psychologist or even a psychiatrist immediately. Masturbating after almost every sex or after every sex?😲
That's already out of hands.

Yours was better, I had a boyfriend that immediately switches to P0rn after each sex and he wouldn't even do more than once, he switches to P0rn and masturbates after, so ridiculous, at first he goes elsewhere like living room, kitchen or bathroom to do it. There was a day he got caught and when I tried to talk to him about it, he didn't see it as a big deal, didn't believe he needed help.
I finally left him, now, I'm with someone who's so good in bed and wouldn't do that kind of a thing, we both ensure we are both satisfied.
Fvck chronic masturbators.

Quote from: Flakeimee on Oct 06, 2024, 11:03 PMHe could have higher libido and didn't want to get you worn out.

And who told you she doesn't have the highest libido, if that's the case, he would have requested for more. Guy's just a P0rn addict

He could have higher libido and didn't want to get you worn out.

Quote from: Ruthk on Oct 06, 2024, 10:59 PMThis is different, it happens when you are no longer with her not that you masturbate immediately after having sex with her.

I agree, wouldn't do that whenever she was with me, I would ask for more instead which she was always ready to give.

Quote from: Lawanon on Oct 06, 2024, 10:57 PMHe could do that because you're too sexy and sex with you is always superb. I once had a babe that anytime I had sex with her, I will feel the urge to masturbate after she leaves due to the good sex memory. The sex was usually so great.

This is different, it happens when you are no longer with her not that you masturbate immediately after having sex with her.

He could do that because you're too sexy and sex with you is always superb. I once had a babe that anytime I had sex with her, I will feel the urge to masturbate after she leaves due to the good sex memory. The sex was usually so great.

Quote from: Ticam on Oct 06, 2024, 10:53 PMIt is a problem, having a sexy woman beside you and you prefer to masturbate, you better seek help if you do it.

Lol

Quote from: Kellybook on Oct 06, 2024, 10:52 PMSome do it because they can't jerk off normally except they use their hands. I don't think it should be a problem.

It is a problem, having a sexy woman beside you and you prefer to masturbate, you better seek help if you do it.

Some do it because they can't jerk off normally except they use their hands. I don't think it should be a problem.