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Posted by Ticam
 - Sep 22, 2024, 09:41 PM
Quote from: Brookad on Sep 22, 2024, 09:18 PMYou better start thinking of how to outsource sex too.
Posted by Rocco
 - Sep 22, 2024, 09:32 PM
Quote from: Brookad on Sep 22, 2024, 09:18 PMYou better start thinking of how to outsource sex too.
Posted by Brookad
 - Sep 22, 2024, 09:18 PM
Quote from: Ticam on Sep 22, 2024, 09:16 PMI don't want to do the chores and I don't want anyone to help out with the chores either, I just want us to have enough money so we could always outsource it.
You better start thinking of how to outsource sex too.
Posted by Ticam
 - Sep 22, 2024, 09:16 PM
I don't want to do the chores and I don't want anyone to help out with the chores either, I just want us to have enough money so we could always outsource it.
Posted by Brookad
 - Sep 22, 2024, 09:14 PM
Quote from: Shereefah on Sep 22, 2024, 09:09 PMFriendship and genuine love.
Ordinarily, you can't genuinely love someone and see the person work all day without helping. Chores aside, even as a housewife or a househusband, when you see responsibilities pressing down your spouse's capacity, you want to assist by finding a job also, that's love.

You can't genuinely love someone and see the person being sex-starved and you feel cool because you (alone) are satisfied. Somehow, you try to find a balance, not by killing yourself though, but there will always be a way around it, all you two need to do is communicate as true friends and know which way to go.

You can't genuinely love someone and see the person lack, except if you truly do not have, and with the love in your heart, you strive and the other person sees that.

It's all about genuine love and great friendship between the two.
Genuine love wouldn't allow negative actions in the marriage.
Hmmm
Posted by SweetNamida
 - Sep 22, 2024, 09:13 PM
Quote from: Shereefah on Sep 22, 2024, 09:09 PMFriendship and genuine love.
Ordinarily, you can't genuinely love someone and see the person work all day without helping. Chores aside, even as a housewife or a househusband, when you see responsibilities pressing down your spouse's capacity, you want to assist by finding a job also, that's love.

You can't genuinely love someone and see the person being sex-starved and you feel cool because you (alone) are satisfied. Somehow, you try to find a balance, not by killing yourself though, but there will always be a way around it, all you two need to do is communicate as true friends and know which way to go.

You can't genuinely love someone and see the person lack, except if you truly do not have, and with the love in your heart, you strive and the other person sees that.

It's all about genuine love and great friendship between the two.
Genuine love wouldn't allow negative actions in the marriage.
You're right, some people aren't just capable of loving genuinely and this is a discussion we all don't wanna have.
Posted by Shereefah
 - Sep 22, 2024, 09:09 PM
Quote from: Brookad on Sep 22, 2024, 08:57 PMWhat keeps a marriage then?
Friendship and genuine love.
Ordinarily, you can't genuinely love someone and see the person work all day without helping. Chores aside, even as a housewife or a househusband, when you see responsibilities pressing down your spouse's capacity, you want to assist by finding a job also, that's love.

You can't genuinely love someone and see the person being sex-starved and you feel cool because you (alone) are satisfied. Somehow, you try to find a balance, not by killing yourself though, but there will always be a way around it, all you two need to do is communicate as true friends and know which way to go.

You can't genuinely love someone and see the person lack, except if you truly do not have, and with the love in your heart, you strive and the other person sees that.

It's all about genuine love and great friendship between the two.
Genuine love wouldn't allow negative actions in the marriage.
Posted by Brookad
 - Sep 22, 2024, 08:57 PM
Quote from: Shereefah on Sep 22, 2024, 08:51 PMNot 100%, I can only say those things contribute.
What keeps a marriage then?
Posted by Shereefah
 - Sep 22, 2024, 08:51 PM
Quote from: Brookad on Sep 22, 2024, 08:49 PMIn a nutshell, helping in or sharing chores, great sex and loads of money keep a marriage alive.
@Shereefah, do you believe in this article you posted?
Not 100%, I can only say those things contribute.
Posted by Brookad
 - Sep 22, 2024, 08:49 PM
In a nutshell, helping in or sharing chores, great sex and loads of money keep a marriage alive.
@Shereefah, do you believe in this article you posted?
Posted by Shereefah
 - Sep 19, 2024, 10:27 PM

Divorce attorney shares the main thing men do to destroy their marriage subsequent to seeing it over and over again

Familial specialist Sarah Corcoran claims men can keep away from this toxic and harmful characteristic with a bit of training
Divorce attorney shares the main thing men do to destroy their marriage

There are a wide range of reasons somebody could pick to separate from their other-half - cheating, monetary burdens, nurturing debates, or basically floating apart.

However, imagine a scenario where we let you know there's really a significantly more normal explanation ladies end their relationships, and that it's everything to do with one of their spouses' most irritating ways of behaving.

Believe it or not, as indicated by one conjugal legal counselor, a great deal of men are at fault for one specific pattern which frequently sees them at the less than desirable finish of legal documents.

One divorce specialist accepts that conjugal breakdown can be dodged.

Furthermore, shockingly, she says it's not even close as outrageous as infidelity and can be kept away from through a bit of training.

While research shows that the quantity of separations or divorces each year have been quickly diminishing since the year 2000, social media well disposed attorney Sarah Corcoran firmly accepts there's something that men ought to keep away from assuming they're stressed the wizardry inside their marriage is beginning to diminish.

Professing to know the '#1 misstep men make in marriage', the US specialist imparted her discoveries to respect to TikTok, asserting that all most husbands need to do to guarantee the nature of their marriage is have their impact with regards to housework.

"A partner who never takes part in household chores frequently breeds disdain in the other spouse," she made sense of.

A man assisting with housework can supposedly assist with preventing divorce.
"There won't be one episode that results in some outrageous battle that closes the marriage, it's a gradual process."

Corcoran's evaluation has likewise been examined by Stanford University's professor of sociology, Michael Rosenfelt, who accepts this structures part of the thought that marriage as an institution has been 'somewhat delayed to find' the ascent and significance of 'gender equality'.

Addressing the American Sociological Association, he said: "Wives still take their husbands' last names, and are mostly constrained to do so.

"Husbands still anticipate that their wives should do the majority of the housework and the greater part of the childcare."

Thus, Corcoran accepts it's fundamental that men check at least one item off their significant other's plan for the day prior to hitting the bed every night.

"My recommendation to you folks out there — if you have any desire to remain wedded, empty the dishwasher sometimes," she playfully cautioned.

All things considered, nonetheless, the relationship master's attestations have conflicted with a few other separation claims made by specialists, including by family legal counselor James Sexton.

The New York City specialist rather contended as of late that the two principal explanations behind divorce these days are infidelity, or financial issues.

Showing up on Steven Bartlett's Diary Of A CEO podcast recently, he stated that cheating is generally brought about by an absence of sex, noticing that 'men need greater amount sex, ladies need greater quality'.

"It's a similar explanation p0rn is more famous with men than it is with ladies — in light of the fact that men simply need to take care of business," he said
Furthermore, on the subject of funds, he proceeded: "Money has a great deal to do with power. Money is about control. Fund is about opportunity, security, it's about an entire pack of things, however it's not all about the Money."

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