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[Ruthk]

I was going through a magazine today and I came across a short story that made me remember something that has happened to me some years ago. I was with a guy that masturbates after we finished having sex, this was so frequent with him.
I didn't know why he was doing that, because sex was always good between us.
Have you ever experienced it?
Why do some men do that?

[Mafy]

Result of P0rn and masturbation addiction.

[Brookad]

He may want more and doesn't want to disturb you.

[Ticam]

He may want more and doesn't want to disturb you.

What do you mean by this?
How many guys can even satisfy a woman on bed to start with?
He better disturb because a lady is usually undersatisfied on bed.
If you don't know what the problem is, just be honest and go see a therapist.
This can't just be true.

[Brookad]

What do you mean by this?
How many guys can even satisfy a woman on bed to start with?
He better disturb because a lady is usually undersatisfied on bed.
If you don't know what the problem is, just be honest and go see a therapist.
This can't just be true.

How about girls that do the same, what's their reason?
Is that not what they usually say?

[Ticam]

How about girls that do the same, what's their reason?
Is that not what they usually say?

Girl's own could be understandable, she truly might not be satisfied and want more but even at that, if you prefer masturbation than telling your partner you want more, that means you aren't telling the truth, be it a woman or a man.

You are just used to masturbation and you prefer it more than the intimacy between you and your partner.

[Mycapfed]

Some guys do it to fall asleep faster.
Did you talk to him about it?
If not, you should have.

[Ruthk]

Some guys do it to fall asleep faster.
Did you talk to him about it?
If not, you should have.

He couldn't fall asleep after a good sex?
I didn't anyway, it was so strange to me and that act participated in the reason I got disinterested in him quicker.

[Ruthk]

How about girls that do the same, what's their reason?
Is that not what they usually say?

Some girls do that too?
Wow!

[Brookad]

Some girls do that too?
Wow!

Yes, there are girls that do the same.

[Bigowl]

Irrespective of your gender, there are only few possible reasons:

1) This is likely going to be the most common reason : You (the masturbator) are not satisfied with what you had with your partner, some people are just too selfish even on bed, they don't care if their partner gets satisfied or not, this is very common with guys and few ladies have this habit as well. Once they're satisfied, how the other person feels is none of their business.
If you keep meeting selfish partners like these in your early days of dating, you'd think it's the normal thing and when you meet the one that cares about you and truly want to satisfy you, you wouldn't know how to communicate or you would have gotten so used to masturbation to the extent you can even do it freely in the presence of your partner.

2) Your partner (masturbator) is either bisexual or gay/lesbian who is practising the act, without you knowing or had in the past engaged in the act and stopped. These ones? No matter how hard you try you can never satisfy them, just let them be with their masturbation.

3)The person (masturbator) is used to sex toys, P0rn and the act of masturbating. It will be difficult to orgasm without masturbating or using a sex toy, if you are the kind of person that thinks sex toy is the way, you are just doing yourself.

4)As a preventative measure, some guys ejaculate with their hands, this could cause them not to get used to cumming inside a woman even with condom, as time goes, they want to always ejaculate this way and when they get used to it, it can lead to brief masturbation after each sex. They might not be able to jerk off inside a woman with or without condom except they masturbate briefly.

5) The masturbator had once been in a sexual relationship where both or one partner likes seeing the other masturbates or like seeing the other use a sex toy and they enjoyed it.

This issue of not wanting to disturb your partner for another round is just a lie and an excuse people find easy to give. There's usually something underneath it except the masturbator had already discussed the issue of not getting satisfaction with their partner and the partner did nothing to improve, that's only when I can believe that excuse, other than that, it's a lie.

[Radiantme]

Anyone that masturbates after sex is either addicted to masturbation or didn't have a good sex.
If you were fvcked crazily, the last thing that would occur to you is masturbation.

[Quinmirah]

This is something that is causing rifts in some relationships and marriages.
I wouldn't know why because I've never had an experience and I pray I don't.
I don't see it as a normal thing.

[Yumbo]

I used to do it to sleep faster, it triggers my sleep but when I noticed it was becoming frequent and I could hardly sleep without it after sex, I stopped. I was doing it without my partner's knowledge though, bathroom things and I never got caught.
I'm glad I stopped, it's not a good habit, wasn't easy to quit but I was determined and started going for other rounds instead, which makes my partner happy. It weakens libido from experience.

[Mafy]

I used to do it to sleep faster, it triggers my sleep but when I noticed it was becoming frequent and I could hardly sleep without it after sex, I stopped. I was doing it without my partner's knowledge though, bathroom things and I never got caught.
I'm glad I stopped, it's not a good habit, wasn't easy to quit but I was determined and started going for other rounds instead, which makes my partner happy. It weakens libido from experience.

That shit is crazy bro, if you prefer going for 10 or more rounds, let your partner know, if he or she do not have that power you know what next to do or you guys could find other things you like that could help, perhaps your partner giving you head and steady foreplay.
Masturbation is freaking destructive, especially when it becomes addiction. Happy you were able to stop.

[Hamani]

What I want you to know is that, once your partner is not opening mouth to tell you he's not satisfied, then stop stressing, it's not about you. If you can't cope with it, leave him.

[Kellybook]

Some do it because they can't jerk off normally except they use their hands. I don't think it should be a problem.

[Ticam]

Some do it because they can't jerk off normally except they use their hands. I don't think it should be a problem.

It is a problem, having a sexy woman beside you and you prefer to masturbate, you better seek help if you do it.

[Kellybook]

It is a problem, having a sexy woman beside you and you prefer to masturbate, you better seek help if you do it.

Lol

[Lawanon]

He could do that because you're too sexy and sex with you is always superb. I once had a babe that anytime I had sex with her, I will feel the urge to masturbate after she leaves due to the good sex memory. The sex was usually so great.